Watching Others Leave for Vacation

Watching Others Leave for Vacation

younger than 30

I have always enjoyed traveling and have been privileged enough as a young adult to enjoy vacations that span the globe. While some were related with business, such as being flown to Calgary, Saskatchewan, Halifax, New York City, Dubai, Colorado, California and Washington, others were purely for leisure.

If you have been following my columns, you might also remember that I completed a master’s degree in Australia recently, and I was able to visit the entire southern end of Australia, including Sydney, Melbourne and Adelaide. I was lucky enough to visit Australia three times within two years!

All of these destinations had a similar effect on me, and whether the trip was for business, education or leisure, I always came home feeling rejuvenated, relaxed and happy. Since being diagnosed with idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis (IPF), it has become more difficult to travel. For those of you living with a lung disease, I am sure you can attest that traveling with supplemental oxygen is difficult, but not impossible. I returned to Australia after my diagnosis and it was manageable, although I admit, I did find it a lot harder to travel than before.

Since the progression of my disease has recently seemed rapid, I have not been fit enough to travel, nor do I have the financial means to do so now with added medical expenses. So it has been very difficult for me to watch others leave for vacation this summer.

I am thrilled for my friends, colleagues and family members who are taking vacation time to jet-off somewhere around the world. I am excited for them and cannot wait to hear about their trips. At the same time, it does tug on my heartstrings that I am unable to go anywhere this summer, and that I am having to watch the excitement of others who are able to travel. I am not writing this column for pity, or sympathy; these people deserve to go and have fun, and I truly hope that they do. It is just a realization for myself, and an even greater awareness of what I have lost right now because of my lung disease.

I have some friends who have gone overseas and I am very envious of them, but it has also been hard to watch friends and colleagues take vacation time away from work and just stay local. This is not something I am able to do right now, as I often use my time off work for prolonged hospital stays, exacerbation events, or sick days. To maintain my income and thus my budget, I am trying to reserve sick and vacation days for when my illness forces me to rest. This is my choice. I could take some vacation time this summer and visit local beaches, sleep in or relax around home, but I would fret about not having banked hours to be paid for time I need to miss work because of my illness. To take off, and know I would worry about it the whole time, seems to counter the point of a vacation.

There’s another reason I am envious of my friends and colleagues who are traveling now. I am really missing the amazing people I have crossed paths with during previous vacations. I have met friends who have become family in Australia, and I have camp friends in Europe that I would do anything to visit. I am someone who gets attached to people easily, especially while on vacation, and I would love to take a trip to see them.

I know that traveling in the future is not out of the question, and I am grateful to have had my travel experiences. But summer is a wonderful time when a lot of young adults my age are enjoying time overseas or visiting parts of our own beautiful country, and I am envious. I feel a little emotional because watching friends and colleagues leave for vacation just highlights for me, again, what I have lost because of my disease.

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4 comments

  1. Ray Hastings says:

    i also have pif and enjoy traveling. there are a couple things have found very helpful.
    1. bought a portable 02 concentrator. it is a small effective model that allows me take it with me. it can produce p to 6 liters per minute.
    2. my wife and i are going on a cruise, leaving friday. i have trouble walking large distances so i found a company that rents scoters for cruise ships. for $200.00 i pick up the scoter at the pier and use it on the ship for the cruise, they also rent O2 equipment. cruises are a good vacation for people with ipf.

  2. Charlene I understand exactly how you feel. It was wholly difficult managing to go away with my dear Pa when his oxygen needs increased as there was always huge hurdles to overcome. However, I hope you manage to find some time for a little break and a little peace and quiet, even if you set up a mini seaside in your own backyard. You absolutely deserve the whole world, and whilst it feels impossible to achieve, I hope you can find a way in which to feel rested during this Summer period.

  3. Eileen Lewis says:

    Charlene, Are you a professional writer? If not, you should be. Your articles always strike a chord with me and I look forward to them. I would like to hear about your travels and experience them from your own eyes. I would like to hear about the sights, sounds, smells and feelings that a place evokes for you. You have visited some interesting places. For me personally, sometimes planning and documenting a trip are almost as much fun as being there. Those of us who are chronically ill sometimes travel in our minds from our own or through the experience of others. I probably know every blog about England on the internet. I go there thru Netflix and books. I go to authors conferences and other venues that carry me inside experiences and stories.
    Think about expanding your writing..I would love to hear more.

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