Honoring another warrior taken by idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis
A columnist pays tribute to his late friend and fellow IPF patient
On Jan. 18, Larry Runyon passed away at 76. Larry was a warrior fighting idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis (IPF) for more than 15 years. He’s certainly not the first person I’ve known who has passed because of IPF, but he is the first one to pass whom I’ve known for more than 30 years.
I had worked with Larry for a number of years when we were both special agents for the U.S. Air Force Office of Special Investigations (AFOSI). Larry retired from AFOSI in 1990 and ended up in the Pacific Northwest working in the Office of Counterintelligence at Pacific Northwest National Laboratory. Ultimately, I retired from AFOSI in 1997 and started a second career in the security and investigations industry in the mid-Atlantic region of the East Coast.
Occasionally, I would hear Larry’s name when speaking with people we both knew, but we didn’t keep in direct contact. Following my IPF diagnosis in January 2017, I sent out a note to friends on social media. Another former agent shared that information on a private page for retired agents. Larry’s wife, Cheryl, commented that Larry had also been diagnosed with IPF, which was news to me.
Having a rare disease is a ticket to an exclusive club. Sadly, it’s usually a club that no one wants to join. Members of Club IPF, like many other rare diseases, have an almost immediate personal bond.
Club membership is not reserved exclusively for patients, however. Caregivers and other people who care about patients are also members. By responding to my message, Cheryl, who was also Larry’s caregiver, had renewed a relationship that now stretched across the United States.
The PF network
Club IPF has an informal information-sharing network that reaches people around the world. While I have met many members of this club in person, it is only a small fraction of the club’s total membership. Introductions are made through this informal network.
I recall that when I was planning to attend the Pulmonary Fibrosis Foundation Summit in 2019, Cheryl and Larry suggested I seek out another patient, Paul Hilliard, who was also attending the summit. When I introduced myself to Paul at the gathering in San Antonio, Texas, another immediate bond was formed. Paul, who had received a lung transplant, passed away in early 2021.
There are social media groups where patients discuss a wide variety of PF topics. Questions about specific medications and side effects are common. Some share the tips and tricks they’ve discovered for taking a particular medication. Sharing life hacks can make some of the challenges easier to deal with, especially for the newly diagnosed.
To be clear, this information-sharing network should not be used to glean medical advice. I often see informal testimonials regarding a specific medication combo or particular supplements. But what works for one person may have a negative effect on another. I encourage you to consult your own medical care team before making any medication changes or decisions, or using supplements your doctors have not prescribed.
One of the positive outcomes of the COVID-19 pandemic was the advent of an increased number of virtual support groups meeting via Zoom. Today, it is much easier to find a support group that meets your needs and schedule. The other benefit of virtual groups is their ability to reach those in underserved communities around the country.
As a writer for Pulmonary Fibrosis News and its parent company, BioNews, exposure to other rare disease writers and their communities has been incredibly inspiring for me. Each of the rare disease publications represents a community of patients, caregivers, and families who have banded together to create a formidable foe against any disease.
Larry was a pulmonary fibrosis warrior. Rest now, warrior, we have the watch. The PF community will continue to pursue more effective therapies and ultimately a cure. Continuing the pursuit is my promise to make every breath count.
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What a beautiful tribute, Sam. Paul and Larry both were amazing people. I know Larry, Cheryl and Paul through the UWMC face-to-face support group and through my online groups. I got to meet Paul in person - FINALLY - at the PFF Summit in 2019. And meet you and your wife as well. What a wonderful thing it is to meet the others in our worldwide PF community. Larry and Paul are missed. Thank you for remembering them in your post. Stay well and keep writing. It's a wonderful thing for you to share your journey and help others. Bless you.
Thanks for reading my column and for your note. Each of our stories is unique. The people my wife Susan and I have met on this journey are special to us. I love being able to share the stories of my journey and introduce the world to some of the people I have met along the way.
What a brilliant friendship. Wish I had a friend here in RSA to share my journey with IPF
Thanks for reading my column and your comment. Can you tell me where RSA is? If that is the airport code then it might be Santa Rosa but it might be easier to ask instead of guess. If you share where RSA is you might find a connection from some others readers here at Pulmonary Fibrosis News (PFN). You might also consider joining the Forums section of PFN to find others in your area. There is a link to the Forums at the top of the PFN page.