Living with IPF and Navigating the Changes
Living with any life-threatening illness is difficult and brings many changes, both to the patient and her family. Following my diagnosis of idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis (IPF) in early 2016, my doctor talked about the physical changes I should expect. What the doctor didn’t mention were the other — nonphysical — changes that I would endure while living with a life-threatening illness as a young adult.
I clearly remember that conversation with my physician — it is one that will never leave me. He said that he wasn’t sure how quickly things would change for me physically. A diagnosis with IPF as a young adult is rare, and my doctor explained that the disease could remain unchanged for several years or it could progress quickly. Unfortunately, he was right about the latter. However, despite this progression, I have found the physical changes easier to navigate than the other changes in my life.
It’s unclear to me which member of the medical team is responsible for talking with a patient about the nonphysical changes that a life-threatening illness can bring. Perhaps it is a nurse, a social worker, a transplant team member or a therapist. Maybe it’s not the job of a medical team member at all and it’s up to the patient to figure out as they learn to live with their disease.
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Following are some of the biggest changes I have experienced since my diagnosis:
- My career and how much I am invested in it: I used to value higher education, continuous learning, and professional development as ways to further my career. Since my IPF diagnosis, I am no longer interested in this further learning. It’s sufficient for me to go to work each day, do a good job, and then go home. Not long ago, I fought to return to work just six weeks after major surgery. Now, I can’t imagine returning to work so early and jeopardizing my recovery. It sounds cliché, but any career is merely a way to make a living — everyone is dispensable no matter what job they do. No one should prioritize work over his or her physical or mental health.
- My hobbies: Living with a lung disease has meant giving up most physical activities, including hockey and running, which I loved. At first, I found this difficult to accept. However, over time I swapped physical activities for quieter, more creative hobbies — and I am thankful for the time to explore new hobbies that make me as happy as playing sports did.
- Friendships: When a chronic illness is “introduced” into a friendship, it can really change things. Living with IPF has helped me to realize who my true friends are and who will stick around through the tough times. My current friendships have changed, and I now understand what I want in future friendships, too. I want to find friends who are authentic and honest, and who have a genuine interest in spending time with me despite my physical limitations.
- What I value and cherish: It’s important to identify what is meaningful to you and what brings you joy. I’m focusing on enjoying the things that make me happiest. On this journey, I’ve realized how unimportant materialistic things are; for example, a $30 watch and a $300 watch tell the same time. I cherish quality time spent with family and friends now, and I’m not sure I would have appreciated this simple pleasure so early in my life if it weren’t for my IPF diagnosis.
What are some of the most significant changes you’ve experienced since your IPF/PF diagnosis? Continue this discussion in our PF forums.
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