With summer in full swing, I’ve decided to enjoy the special things about the season. I’m trying to be intentional about relishing the good things, instead of going into automatic mode — just surviving every day.
My boysenberries ripened. It was a joy to pick them and eat them — alone on ice cream or in a cobbler. The arrival of my boysenberries alerted me to enjoy every moment of summer.
My husband and I are enjoying all the wonderful foods of summer, especially nectarines, corn on the cob, and anything on the barbecue. I can’t be outside when he’s cooking, but I can enjoy the result.
Spending time outside
We have a nice backyard, and I’ve been intentional about sitting outside when it is still cool. I live in Northern California, where temperatures are starting to get in the 100s, so I sit outside first thing in the morning.
Taking short trips
Traveling anywhere is taxing for me. My instinct is just to stay inside. I use 8 liters per minute (lpm) of oxygen when sitting and 10 lpm when walking, and I get worn out easily. Part of my path of being intentional is to take short trips with my husband. I mean going somewhere 30 to 45 minutes away to have lunch at a cute spot we don’t normally go to. We had fun last week eating lunch at a Mexican restaurant about 30 minutes away in the foothills that head up to Lake Tahoe.
We went to a Swedish Festival, three hours away, last month. I’ll be honest, that was a stretch for me. We spent the night there, which helped. My husband is half Swedish, and these traditions are part of his family. I decided to go as a gift to my husband for all he does for me. It was fun. We enjoyed a great smorgasbord, Swedish pancakes, a parade, and lots of Swedish activities. As we drove home from the event, my husband thanked me and said, “It sure was nice to take a non-medical trip.” Whew, it hit me how often our travels revolve around going to a PF specialist 100 miles away. It took me a week to recover from the festival, but it was worth it.
I really like music, but for whatever reason, I don’t think to put it on. I’ve just recently begun using an app called iHeartRadio to enjoy playlists of fun summer-themed songs.
By light, I mean light. I had a friend plant tomatoes, cucumbers, zucchinis, and peppers — I pick whatever’s ripe. Check out this cucumber. The zucchini and tomatoes are almost ready, but the peppers aren’t doing so great. It is amazing how much joy it brings me to pick one of these vegetables and enjoy it with our dinner. I’m grateful to God for making it so easy to plant seeds that turn into healthy food.
It’s a challenge
I know what a challenge it is to be intentional to embrace the blessings of summer while battling such a difficult disease. The hardships, losses, and grief of this disease are ever present. At the same time, it helps me to embrace the good things that are here for me to enjoy now.
I’d love to hear from you
What summer joys are you enjoying? Do you have to be intentional to avoid falling into a rut of “just surviving”? What helps you focus on the good that’s here for us to enjoy?
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