The Daily Impact Pulmonary Fibrosis Has on Patients

The Daily Impact Pulmonary Fibrosis Has on Patients

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There is no question that living with pulmonary fibrosis is exhausting for patients and caregivers alike. Those who may not have any experience with PF might assume that it is only a physically limiting disease. I would have thought the same before my idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis (IPF) diagnosis in 2016. Unfortunately, what I grossly underestimated after my diagnosis was the emotional, mental, and social impact it has in addition to physical implications.

When I try to explain this to close friends and family, I see confusion on their faces. What they tend not to realize, through no fault of their own, is that even the smallest daily activities can take a toll. As our disease progresses, so do our physical limitations, which also affects us socially, mentally, and emotionally.

Some days are good, and I have learned to embrace them. Unfortunately, difficult days happen as well, and this is when I need to remember to be gentle with myself. I wrote a column about this, and it is a good reminder for me to revisit it from time to time.

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Some might wonder how simple daily activities can be so impactful for a patient living with IPF. So, I wanted to take some time to outline the toll that daily activities can have on us. Feel free to share this with others within your network who may need reminding from time to time.

  • Emotional impact: Learning you have a life-threatening illness is emotionally exhausting, especially at first. For me, the long-term emotional impact is that I likely won’t get to live as long as my peers and the people I love most. It is painful to think about and always at the back of my mind. However, regarding daily impacts, what gets to me most are the things I used to be able to do each day and no longer can. I see many of my friends enjoying their lives to the fullest, and I know a day will come when I can no longer do the things I love, such as travel, earn my own income, drive, etc. When I think of my peers and all they can accomplish in a day, it has a significant emotional impact. I can no longer buy groceries or do other activities after work because I am too tired. I have to plan to complete things, unlike my peers, who can do things sporadically. IPF stole that flexibility from me, and it is infuriating.
  • Social impact: I used to love being social and would spend hours on various committees, in volunteer roles, or hanging out with large groups of friends. While I still enjoy this occasionally, it exhausts me and I need a few days to recover. This is hugely impactful because I think to myself: What young adult needs to spend days in bed after hanging out with friends? As a result of limiting my social activities to only weekends, some friends have stepped away because I can’t spend as much time with them, and this is something that IPF took from me.
  • Mental impact: This is probably the most detrimental impact that IPF has had on me, which I was blissfully unaware of until my disease progressed. I used to be cognitively sharp, remembering meetings or appointments without writing them down, navigating various technology devices, being capable of innovative thinking, and paying strong attention to details. Unfortunately, none of these apply to me anymore, and I need several tools to help me remember different tasks throughout the day. This has significantly affected my employability and my ability to feel confident at my job. While others say they don’t notice a significant change in my abilities, it is something I feel in every aspect of my day, and it has had a huge impact on me mentally.
  • Physical impact: This one is easier to understand from an outsider’s perspective; any lung disease is going to impact someone physically. Instead of being busy from sunup to sundown each day, I now require naps to maintain my energy level. Things that used to come easily, such as driving, have become exhausting. I realize that this will only worsen as my disease progresses, so I try to embrace doing what I still can. But it is tough when I see my peers and know that I can no longer keep up with them.

How does your disease affect you on a daily basis? How do you respond to complete the tasks you need to each day?

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6 comments

  1. Anne says:

    much the same, fortunately I no longer have to work. It would be a disaster. Lately coughing has taken a huge toll. I’m not sure what the problem is. It’s the same damn dry cough. I see the doctor tomorrow maybe he’ll have some words of wisdom.

    • Charlene Marshall says:

      Hi Anne,

      Thanks so much for writing to us, although so sorry to hear about this pesky cough that has taken a toll on you. Some days I wish I had a productive cough, at least there would be some relief when getting the crap in my lungs out. Unfortunately this isn’t the case with the chronic dry cough, and it is exhausting isn’t it? Do you have any puffers to relieve the dry cough at all? I know some people say it helps and others don’t but maybe worth a try. Hopefully your appointment went well at the doctors and he could offer you some potential relief.

      Take care and thinking of you.
      Charlene.

    • Thomas Bivens says:

      Hi I drink tea with honey and squirt of lemon in it.
      I also got a prescription of coigh syrup eith codeine in it.
      I only take that before bedtime 5 ml.
      Cough is terrible at bedtime and again in morning from laying down at night.
      Choking part is the worse , my O2 level plummets to 60’s each after/during these spells.

      • Charlene Marshall says:

        Hi Thomas,

        Thanks for reading our columns and getting in touch via the comments. I know Anne will find your reply helpful, as have I. Do you find the cough syrup with codeine helpful? We’ve been talking a lot about the discomfort that comes from a cough triggered by laying down a lot in our forums. Have you tried a raised bed at all, to see if the cough can be eliminated a bit based on your positioning? Hope this helps a bit and that you can find some relief to the pesky cough. Thinking of you.

        Charlene.

  2. Kenneth Overby says:

    Dear Charlene,
    I hope you receive this. I was just typing and my entry just was wiped out and unretrievable. Being the caretaker of a spouse that has Pulmonary Fibrosis and Chronic Pulmonary Hypertension, I can relate to your issues with depression. I am an exhorter–one who edifies (builds people up) and gives people hope, and I have spent a lot of time and energy trying to keep my wife feeling positive. We were not pleased and taken back by the dismal prognosis she received. But my reaction was not to accept that prognosis.
    I have stressed first to put our trust God and not our confidence in man [Psalm 118:8] because He is the one who is really in control of things. Secondly, I feel that the power of visualization is very important. You have to see in the spirit where you want to be because everything starts with our thoughts. If you want to be well, you have to see yourself well. You also have to speak words that back up how you see yourself. Because as a man thinketh, so is he. [James Allen] What you speak will eventually manifest itself in the flesh. Third, be pro-active. This does a couple of things. Your research shows your pulmonary specialist that you are interested in your body, and this will motivate him or her to be more interested. Also, your findings may assist your specialist to reconsider your prognosis and approach to your illness or disease. I could also add to be specific when you tell your doctor how you feel. It could result in adjustments to or in the elimination of certain medications you take. So, ask questions if something isn’t clear, and if you feel strongly about something, make recommendations. Remember, your doctors don’t know everything, and many are fishing in the dark. Your input is crucial to resolving your condition. In the future, I plan to share many of my findings with you in the hope that it will motivate you to do the same.

    • Charlene Marshall says:

      Hi Kenneth,

      Thanks so much for getting in touch with me and for reading my columns. As always, it is great to hear from you! I appreciate your thorough and kind words within your post, lots for me to consider and think about. I especially like the reminder to be proactive in researching my disease and what might help me, hopefully encouraging my pulmonary physician to do the same on my behalf. So important to speak about our feelings as well, and be constantly re-evaluating our medications, as nothing is worse for me then being on more medications than I did. Really good reminders! I’d really like it if you did share your findings with me, and I’ll do that as well for anything I find. Appreciate your intake on this, and thanks again for writing Kenneth. Glad you’re part of our PF community!

      Cheers,
      Charlene.

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