Finding calm in high-pressure moments of medical chaos
At stressful times, I've been helped by remembering to 'keep calm and carry on'

Have you seen the T-shirt or sign that reads “Keep Calm and Carry On” (KCCO)? You might be surprised to learn the story behind this phrase. Created in 1939, it was part of a three-poster series intended to boost morale during World War II. Ironically, the Keep Calm and Carry On poster was never published or made public. It might have faded away were it not discovered in a box at a book auction in 2000.
When I was diagnosed with idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis (IPF) in 2017, the phrase Keep Calm and Carry On was widely known, with plenty of variations that replaced “carry on” with a variety of two-word replacements. When I felt the need to pause or call a timeout during my IPF journey, the concept of KCCO would join my thoughts.
Have you had times when you’ve needed to pause so you can move forward? Shortly after my diagnosis, I began to take note of things that made me pause. I made a mental list of those moments, noting things to be mindful of instead of things to avoid.
Several examples of that came up during the pre-transplant phase of my journey, when I had a lot of appointments, especially tests to qualify for the surgery. When I’d look at my calendar and see a week full of appointments, I’d think of KCCO. I’d remind myself to stay focused and remember why these appointments were necessary.
Keeping calm through my transplant
At 9 a.m. on July 9, 2021, hours before I received my bilateral lung transplant, I was notified that lungs were available. After taking a minute to say a prayer for my donor family, my wife, Susan, and I were off to the hospital, which is 90 minutes away on a good traffic day.
When I got there, the donor’s lungs hadn’t arrived yet. Still, the staff immediately began to prepare me for surgery. Once the lungs arrived, the surgeon, along with my care team, determined that ex vivo lung perfusion was necessary to make them ready for transplant. That was another opportunity for a KCCO moment, as I waited to learn if the process was going to make the donor lungs suitable for transplant.
About 3 a.m. on July 10, that question was answered, and I was taken into surgery. Because it was during the peak of COVID-19 in the U.S., Susan had to sit alone in the waiting room during my transplant. She shared with me much later, when I was recovering at home, that she’d been worried that she’d leave the hospital a widow. That was her time for a KCCO moment. When I came out of surgery and recovery at noon, the surgeon told Susan everything went well, and I was doing well, too. She exhaled.
During the 3.5 years since my transplant, the opportunities to pause have continued. I used KCCO:
- When I learned I had chronic kidney disease stage 3B from medication
- When I learned my bronchial stem had narrowed and would require a stent
- When I was hospitalized with COVID-19.
In each of these events, I was able to take a deep breath and reassure myself that I was going to carry on.
In moments of chaos, allow yourself the time to pause. Each of us might do that differently, which is fine. My own KCCO moments have allowed me to make every breath count.
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Linda Hogan
Does "Tag"mean the topic for the discussion? If so, I had an extremely stressful day this week. My SS card, medicare card,etc. vanished from my bag. And that was the beginning. Then I was lost driving to an appointment and I called, followed directions and lost again. I am older. When I left the car, I fell on the asphalt or concrete. Etc. The entire day was like that and I am not usually in stressful situations. I came home, showered and tried to relax, until finally I watched the news, Does all America seem this way to only me right now or is it just a crazy time when I am an early patient with PF and trying to adapt to the thought that I may not live as I thought I would into the future? How do others handle these days and the knowledge that they aren't going to last as long as thought?
Gary HaberkornHalm
Thank you for sharing Sam. For me the operative word is “carry on”. I view life as having ups and downs like a sine wave. I do my best to stay calm during times of stress. When I am having a down moment, I know it’s temporary and the up moment is coming. I also saw a comment once that stated , “life is a series of adjustments, embrace it”. I read this every night.
Bill Opsahl
I have ILD and I’m not able to find anything to help. Do you know of anything for ILD. I would sure appreciate it