Finding Joy When the Weather Keeps You Stuck Inside

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by Charlene Marshall |

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If anyone reading this column resides in southwestern Ontario, you can attest to the abnormally hot temperatures that landed on us toward the end of September. For those of you who can bare the heat and humidity, I do hope you had the chance to go outside, because the weather is beautiful.

Unfortunately, some of us have to enjoy the nice weather from our windows because our lungs do not tolerate the intense heat. For those of us who have to watch hot and humid days from indoors, how do you keep your spirits up when everyone is outside enjoying the last few days of summer?

I love summer and I used to enjoy long days on the beach with cold drinks, and dipping in the lake to cool down. So, not being able to do this is hard mentally and emotionally. Even though I know staying inside with air-conditioning is the best thing for me, it is still tough to watch everyone else enjoying the last warm days of the year.

While wishing I could be outside, I decided to make a conscious decision to do something that would still fill my day with joy, while also protecting my lungs and my body by staying out of the heat. To my surprise, the activities I chose have left me feeling joyous, content and productive.

I thought I would use this column to share with you what I chose to do inside whenever the weather keeps me locked up indoors. I also invite you to share with me any activities that bring you joy when you are stuck inside due to excessive heat or bitter cold.

The first two activities are arguably not fun ones, but it sure feels good when these tasks are completed:

  • Washing all my bedding: With summer turning into fall, I thought I would be changing my bedding from summer sheets to warmer blankets, but that certainly is not the case with the warmer autumn we have been experiencing here in Ontario. I still decided to strip my bed and the bedding in the spare room, and throw everything in the wash. To some this may seem like such a simple task, but for someone living with a lung disease, this actually takes quite a lot of energy. It also feels really good when it’s finished.
  • Dusting: I wear a protective mask when I dust and use only essential oil-based cleaners. I took everything off the shelves in my living room and bedroom and wiped down all the surfaces. I don’t let dust accumulate in my house because of my lungs, and usually I have someone else help me with this task. Even though it probably took me double the time it would have taken someone else, I am still very happy to have been able to do this task independently.
  • Spending time in my craft room: This is something I haven’t done in a really long time, and I forgot how happy it made me to make several hand-stamped cards for whenever I need them. The cards ranged from thank-you cards, birthday cards, holiday cards and sympathy cards. The task of tidying it up is not something I am looking forward to, but it really made me feel productive to get back into my craft room. As a friend just shared with me, crafting can be a therapeutic outlet.

Not being able to do what I want outside has been one of the biggest adjustments since my diagnosis of idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis (IPF), and I am still getting used to it. However, I am learning that when I fill my days with activities that I enjoy doing, which I am hopeful I can still physically manage, I don’t miss being outside as much.

Thank you in advance for sharing your ideas on what other activities I can try to help bring me joy during the days when breathing outside feels nearly impossible.

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Lea avatar

Lea

I love those ideas!

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Sandy avatar

Sandy

I cleaned out closets, drawers, clothes, shoes, cabinets. I had my husband pull out the drawers and bring them to me so I could sit and go through them. I bought corelle dishes through Walmart (free delivery) because my pfalzgraff was way too heavy for me to carry anymore. Storeing stuff for a garage sale when the weather is more conducive for my breathing (my sister is going to help me). Sort through and get rid of books, old medicines, old perfumes (nobody wants you to wear them anymore anyways). I call all this condensing down. Hope this helps.

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Judy krasovec

I really enjoy your column! I try to keep some good books to read, puzzles, and now I've started my Xmas and fall crafts. The only thing is now the drs seem to take up some of my craft money so I have to watch sales before I need them. I dread winter !!!

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Victoria Cameron avatar

Victoria Cameron

I am encouraged by your words and the comments of others. I find the biggest challenge is my head wanting to do what my body can't. I did manage to do some very basic quilting. Thank goodness for air conditioning. We had the most amazing summer in BC but still couldn't go out with the heat and the smoke.
I am with you about the bedding. It is a huge task, especially the duvet cover, but when it is done it is so nice.

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Joyce Douglas avatar

Joyce Douglas

How clever of you to find things to keep you occupied during the summer/fall extreme heat. I read a lot this summer, and spent time on the computer. Thank Heavens for air conditioning. Though it bothered me in the car it didn't in our apt. Strange. My breathing didn't get worse until we had some of the smoke from the western fires. Luckily we didn't get many days of smoke. Strange how I used to smoke and did enjoy it, even campfires, but not now. Can't even do my own marshmellows now due to the oxygen. Oh well, can't win them all. I haven't had a winter with my IPF lung problem yet, so I am wondering how that will be.

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