As we begin a new year, I want to wish all of you a happy and healthy 2018. I hope the holiday season was magical for you and that the year is off to a great start.
Each new year, I like to reflect on the time passed and the things I learned, along with the hardships, failures, good times, and gifts the year brought me. One of the biggest gifts I received this past year was the ability to write for Pulmonary Fibrosis News. It helped me connect with so many of you who share similar life experiences.
Through last year’s columns, I’ve had the opportunity to grow as a patient, an individual providing support to others, and as a friend. More specifically, because of sharing my experiences as a patient in my columns, many of you have shared feedback and thoughts on your own perspectives, which naturally may differ from mine. With this, you have given me knowledge I couldn’t otherwise have had, experiences that are personal but ever so helpful, and insight that only another patient could offer.
To hear directly from many of you about these things, or to watch conversations and discussions blossom through a column topic, is truly a gift and I am very thankful. Much comfort is found in the company of friends and family, but nothing is quite like connecting with a community of people who really understand what you are going through. For me, these are the people who take time to read and comment on my columns, and for that I am grateful.
While I reflected on the past year of writing for Pulmonary Fibrosis News, I realized that many columns were generated based on my own needs, experiences, and thoughts. So, I would like to take this time to ask you: What topics, themes, or curiosities would you like to see written about in my columns? Consider this a formal invitation for your thoughts and ideas on future column topics.
For now, I want to highlight some of my previous columns and the comments that have sparked connections, meaningful discussions, and friendships:
- “The Balancing Act of Living with IPF“: This column, published in July 2017, enabled me to connect with a 28-year-old who also is living with IPF. While connecting with anyone who reads my columns is meaningful, sometimes when I have the opportunity to connect with people of the same age and life stage as me, I feel significantly less alone on this journey.
- “Despite IPF, I Am Grateful in this New Year“: I often return to this column, published in January 2017, to read the comments on some of my tough days. I try to be grateful as often as I can, but it is inevitable that I will have bad days. This column is so meaningful to me because several folks connected with me directly about what they are grateful for in their own lives, and many were applicable to my life, too. I added them to my own gratitude list.
- “I Need to Trust You When You Say I’m Not a Burden“: This column from May 2017 is meaningful to me because the comments really validated how I felt. Asking for help is one of the hardest things for me, and this was the column’s focus. The comments allowed me to realize that asking for help, in general, is really tough, not just for me but for others as well. That said, it is also necessary for those of us living with IPF.
- “What I Don’t Need as a Patient with IPF“: I felt really guilty about writing this column in August 2017, as I feared I would be considered demanding. The comments it generated were from people sharing their thoughts and offering applause for my willingness to tackle such a sensitive topic. I am so grateful for the connections made from this post as well.
These are just a few columns that were meaningful to me in 2017, but the list could go on and on. Please feel free to share with me some topics you’d like me to cover in 2018!
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