A Legacy of Kindness and Compassion: Remembering Kim Fredrickson

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Monday, June 3 was a difficult day for the pulmonary fibrosis (PF) community. An advocate, colleague, and friend passed away from complications of PF, but even in her death, Kim Fredrickson will continue to inspire many living with this life-threatening lung disease. While her loss is felt deeply in the PF community, she leaves behind a legacy that won’t be forgotten.

I have procrastinated writing this column because the words to memorialize Kim escaped me. As a columnist, I’m still uncertain that I can adequately capture the impact Kim had on my life, and as her friend, I wish I didn’t have to do this.

I was introduced to Kim when she joined the team at BioNews Services. We became co-columnists, but more importantly, we became fast friends, recognizing many similarities in what we were facing, not only as a result of PF, but also in our personal lives. Kim and I shared a passion for family therapy and had similar career roles outside of writing for Pulmonary Fibrosis News.

I vividly remember a phone conversation quickly straying from the topic of our disease to what led us to working as therapists. Unsurprisingly, it was Kim’s desire to help people that influenced her more than 30-year career, and I have no doubt that many lives were improved because of her. What I hope she knows now is how much she influenced my life and how deeply she will be missed.

When I found out about Kim’s passing, I sat frozen on my bed as the tears streamed down my face. After pulling myself out of shock, I spent time reading our various online correspondences. In many of those exchanges, Kim encouraged me or offered help, regardless of the trials and tribulations she was facing. I was in awe of her selflessness and ability to think of others, even during her difficult times in the intensive care unit at the University of California, San Francisco, while awaiting new lungs.

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In anticipation of writing this column, I pondered what I wanted to leave readers feeling or thinking about. The most important thing for me was to ensure that readers who didn’t know Kim finished my column feeling like they had gotten to know her a little bit. As a result, I spent time reviewing some of our past conversations and connecting them to some of Kim’s best qualities, in my opinion. While there are so many good things to say about her, I’ll leave you with these:

  • Kim was generous with her time and energy. Despite being physically exhausted at times, Kim generously offered tips from past experiences about new initiatives I was taking on. One of our longest Skype conversations involved her sharing helpful tips for advocating publicly for PF. Kim also regularly connected with me about topics I could share on the Pulmonary Fibrosis News Forums.
  • Kim was committed to supporting others and seeing them succeed. I once was invited to participate in a live Q&A on living with IPF, and although I was nervous, Kim was there to cheer me on. I remember being struck by her commitment to supporting me when she said she’d set an alarm to ensure she didn’t miss the event.
  • Kim was reflective and committed to improvement. Throughout the years I’ve known Kim, we had several opportunities to speak about PF and share our stories. Knowing the vulnerability that came with this, Kim always checked in with me about how those speaking opportunities, interviews, or sharing of stories had gone. If I was ever hesitant or thought something could be improved, Kim spent the time discussing specifics and what I could do differently in the future. 
  • Kim was kind. There are far too many examples for me to summarize here, but a few times, Kim would intimately understand my struggles and offer her support. We connected on topics that were deeply personal, such as the vulnerability that comes with fundraising initiatives or helping others understand the seriousness of this disease. She was always there to lend an ear and offer kind words of support. 
  • Kim was compassionate. BioNews Services lost another incredible staff member last September, when Serena Lawrence died of complications of pulmonary hypertension. She and I were friends for many years before getting involved with BioNews Services or falling ill with a pulmonary disease. Kim regularly checked in with me after Serena’s passing and offered compassionate and genuine support.

It’s hard to summarize a loss as profound as this. My hope is that comfort comes to Kim’s family and friends from the knowledge that she is no longer struggling and is free of pain. Rest peacefully, Kim. We’ll always remember you.


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Daryl Long avatar

Daryl Long

After a full year in denial of my diagnosis, it was only recently that I discovered Kim's work. I devoured her blog posts and, especially, Pulmonary Fibrosis Journey, which has guided me my choices of care decisions, as well as practical advice for improving my life living with oxygen therapy. She directly answered all of the difficult and uncomfortable questions that overwhelmed me, post diagnosis. And, most significantly, her kind and thoughtful therapeutic advice informed how I should communicate with my children. I cannot overstate how helpful this has been. I would like to say more, but tears are coming, instead of words.

Thank you, Kim
Rest In Peace.

Charlene Marshall avatar

Charlene Marshall

Hi Daryl,

Thanks so much for reading my column, reaching out via the comments and sharing your beautiful words about Kim! Your sentiments would touch her deeply, I am confident of that. So glad she was able to help support you, she was so good at doing that. Feel free to write any time, I know how tough living with this disease is and I am sending prayers and love your way. We need to keep supporting one another, Kim would have it no other way!

Kind regards,

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Roger M Mills, Jr.

I remember watching a video that Kim made showing how to use oxygen in the shower. From reading your description of her, she gave so much information, advice and support. People like her are special. I too am glad that Kim is away from pf and not suffering as she did before. Hugs to you and thank YOU for your columns and your generous time spent moderating comments of other people on here. We are all a kind of family here who are trying to help ourselves and others through this disease. Thank you for your time and thank you Kim for all that you gave us. Because of your generosity of spirit, hope and knowledge our burdens are all a little bit lighter to bear. Thank you Kim!

Charlene Marshall avatar

Charlene Marshall

Hi Roger,

Thanks so much for reading my column and getting in touch with your amazing words about Kim. Since her passing, the impact she's had on the virtual PF community has become so visible for me and many others. She was so generous and kind in her sharing with us, as you say, through videos, information or just telling others about her experiences. I can only hope to measure up to half what she was some day - it still physically hurts my heart that she's gone, but I hope she is free and no longer suffering. Thank you so much for your kind words Roger, they came to me on a very tough day so I truly appreciate them and you. You're right, we are all family here and just trying to help one another get through this disease until a cure is found. I just pray that is soon! Take good care and feel free to reach out any time, I know Kim would want us to band together.


Carmela avatar


I am sorry I did not know Kim. What I miss the most about Kiim is no matter what she faced, she remained positive, supportive, inspiritational and spiritual. Truly a very unique person. God bless Kim; thank you and you will always be missed and loved.

Charlene Marshall avatar

Charlene Marshall

Hi Carmela,

Thanks so much for reading my columns and sharing your thoughts on my memorial column about Kim. Your sentiments are so very true: no matter what Kim was going through, she remained positive and willing to help others. The world seems a bit more dim without her in it. She would want it no other way though, than us continuing to support one another and advocate for this disease. Thanks for sharing your thoughts, and sending you love as you grieve her absence too.


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