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Relationships and Pulmonary Fibrosis
In the spirit of Valentine’s Day, which is a holiday solely focused on love and relationships, I’ve been thinking a lot about how my relationships (professional, friendships, romances, etc.) have changed since being diagnosed with idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis (IPF). Inevitably, when you’re told you have a terminal illness, many aspects of your relationships shift or change.
After my IPF diagnosis in 2016, I remember being strategic about who I shared this news with as many worries swirled in my mind about the various relationships I had in my life. I highlighted some of those worries in a column I wrote a little over a year ago called Introducing Your Chronic Illness in a New Relationship. One of the hardest decisions I had to make after my diagnosis was: how much do I share with each person?
Fast-forward nearly four years later and yes, some relationships have certainly changed. However, I firmly believe that people who are meant to be in my life have stayed by my side and new folks have been introduced, too. Others have faded away and that is just part of the ebb and flow of relationships sometimes.
How have your relationships changed since being diagnosed with IPF/PF?
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