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Travel and Telling siblings and children after diagnosis of f-IPF
Hi everyone,
I already posted this today but on another forum. I believe perhaps the place this should be located is here.
I recently joined the IPF forum after learning I have IPF on May 10, 2023. So I am a new member and although my younger brother died of IPF in 2016, none of my siblings or I even knew that IPF has a genetic component. Now I am feeling very sad and anxious that I have to tell my 6 living siblings about my diagnosis. My brother, David, was diagnosed at age 54 and lived for 8 years. He likely would be alive today after he had a lung successful transplant. He was walking around the next day without his oxygen. Unfortunately he died two days later of a pulmonary embolism. We are a very close family and my siblings are going to be devastated for me and likely for themselves. My pulmonologist told me that I should tell them to have a HRCT scan. But does anyone know if there is genetic testing available for this disease? I have read a lot and see that they have identified gene mutations, but am not sure if you can actually be tested. Any help from you members would be greatly appreciated. Also, has anyone with IPF had to advise family members that this has a genetic component? .
My next dilemma is travel. I will turn 70 on July 1. My husband and I stalled all of our travel during Covid. We were just beginning to travel again. I know that some destinations are out of the picture now, but I am having a hard time finding elevation information on my travel sites. For instance, we want to go to the Galapagos islands in November, but all I see is that the highest elevation is the top of a mountain at 5,000 feet. I am sure we will not be climbing that, or perhaps any mountains in the Galapagos. But how do I find out what the actual elevations will be on each of the stops? Is there a place where I can find this information? Nothing on the travel site provides the highest elevation of the excursions.
I am so glad to have this forum. I know that my brother and his wife used this forum when he was diagnosed. There is something about conversing with someone who knows where you are coming from.
I feel like I have a good attitude about my diagnosis. I have lived my life with a “glass half full” attitude and no matter what happens to me in the future, I have so much to be grateful for. I do feel that my younger brother was so unfortunate to have been diagnosed at only age 54. I am hopeful that my disease will progress slowly and I will continue to live my life the way I believe every single individual should be living. And that is like ever day could be our last. Wouldn’t our world be such a kinder, gentler place if we all thought today would be our last? I think it is a good way to live.
During the 8 years of my brother’s illness his motto was Carpe diem. That has become our family motto and we have t shirts and sweatshirts that we wear to remember this. Our e mails always end with Carpe diem. I would like to mirror the way my brother lived his life and handled his illness and that was with a great amount of dignity.
Carpe diem
Lynn
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